Susan Burkholder
Legally, Sam was my Step-Dad. In every other way, he was truly my DAD. Daddy-O was what I called him, because to me, he was just so cool. He built and raced funny cars (Mopar of course) AND he was funny!! Many summer weekends were spent at Dragway 42 and Quaker City, waiting for Dad's turn to fly down the strip. To his sometimes annoyance, I loved to wear his huge T-shirts (Mopar and STP were my favorites). Over-sized T-shirts remain my preference to this day :).
He introduced us to our amazing second family, the Corys. Lebanese-American, we really loved their get-togethers. The most delicious food, laughter, fun (Aunties that belly danced) & the best new cousins to play and hang out with. Dad's family was so proud of their Lebanese heritage, but they were even more proud to be Americans and they made sure we realized what a privilege it was to live in this country. We met so many remarkable people over the years and I feel so fortunate for the way they expanded our horizons.
I always said that Dad really loved our Mom (Jennie) to marry a woman with 5 kids! Through the years he became a young, but proud and loving Grandpa. We spent so much time at Mom & Dad's and when things went "bad" for me in my life, Dad always assured me it would be all right in the end. And of course it was. Although they did divorce, Dad was still my Dad.
He went through a sad and lonely time until he met Phyllis. With Phyllis, he shared 30 plus years of adventure, happiness and love. I thank God for the day that Phyllis and her family came into his life and ours. Dad's humor returned and I knew he was living his best life again. Phyllis was, and is, warm and loving and she protected and took perfect care of Dad until his last breath. Because of her, Dad was able to spend his last days at home, his final wish.
He never wanted any of us to see him so frail, weak and vulnerable. But that's not how I will remember him. To me, he will always be my big, burly Daddy-O, making me laugh my head off. Thanks Dad for all of the love, laughter and good advice. He reminded me to just remember all of the goods things about people you love and the good times that you shared - in the end that is ALL that matters (see Dad, I WAS listening). You KNOW how much I'll miss you. Have fun with Kim, Sit and Jid and all of the family - until we meet again.....
Your Daughter,
Suse (aka Susan)
